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Shoot, you are all talking about school age children. My oldest will be three in a few days and I have already talked to him about not letting anyone else touch his private parts and keeping his hands to himself as well. He was taking a bath and really interested in his own parts and as I was getting him ready for bed I simply felt compelled to bring this up. Did he understand everything I was saying - I hardly think so, but it is never to early to start, in small ways, to teach your kids about the dangers that they are sure to face. If you wait until you think they are old enough to understand - it's too late, by that time they will have likely already been exposed to incorrect and bad information.
My sister was just on a jury where there were drugs and a gun involved. There were two small children in the house the entire time. The jury asked some questions about the safety of the children and they were told that at no time were the children in any danger. Seriously? With a gun and drugs in the house? No danger at all???
If your children come home from school saying things that you don't agree with or don't believe, investigate the situation. So often children are repeating what they hear in the lunchroom and on the playground. Teachers cannot be expected to monitor every single word that is being said to and/or by your children. However, once something has been introduced, don't treat your children like babies. You know how to talk to them and how much of any certain subject they are going to understand. Talk to them and tell them what you believe. These are great opportunities for us as parents and if you only ever shut it down with a "you're too young to understand", they won't come and talk to you when they ARE old enough to understand.
What is the harm in an anti-drug bracelet? I know kids that age who are wearing Breast Cancer Awareness bracelets, or Testicular Cancer Awareness. Do they understand these any better than the anti-drug campaign?
ssadams | November 7, 2008 | reply
Did you talk to your childrens' teachers so you know for sure what was discussed? My children, 7 and 9, also spoke about the elections at school, but they were very possitive. We are all witnessing history so I think it's great to involve them and encourage them to vote and take action in the future. They did comment on a few negative ideas, but these were all thoughts shared by other students on recess and outside of the classroom. I was glad we had the discussion so I could let them know my thoughts on the subject. They are in school with other children & ideas are bound to be shared. Don't be scared, take action!!! Our children cannot live in a bubble. I hardly think participating in this exciting election will ruin their lives and corupt them forever!
And as far as "don't do drugs", are you crazy??? Why wouldn't you want to encourage your child to not do drugs? They may be exposed before you are ready. Don't you want them to have the sentence, "don't do drugs" etched in thier minds?
WAKE UP PEOPLE!!
Angie | November 4, 2008 | reply
theresabell | November 3, 2008 | reply
lyricsage | October 28, 2008 | reply
Our poor children need to be sheltered from some of the craziness...how sad to expose them to it prematurely. I am all for thorough education but there is a time, a way and AN AGE and believe that political education should wait until AT LEAST high school when the child has the benefit of deduction!
Our poor kids need to have fun - be filled with happiness and certainly NOT the stress of our current state! Okay, so here's to Positive Parenting - CHEERS!
CalmBabyRN | October 21, 2008 | reply
WendyBellissimo | October 20, 2008 | reply
That is too bad that your children's teacher(s)/school abused their power of influence in such a manner. I do believe, however, that because this is such a historical election that our children should be aware of what is going on. It is not their responsibility to worry about who will win or necessarily what each person stands for, certainly ANY information should be given in an unbiased manner. Yet, one of the best ways to fully understand a subject is to be involved with it and because the elections are upcoming, it is a good opportunity for teachers to use real life topics and experiences to teach.
This is a great opportunity as a parent as well to really talk to your children about these topics as well. I would be glad that they were coming home talking about politics at this age as opposed to sex or anti-drug education; two other topics that are also getting introduced younger and younger.
ssadams | October 14, 2008 | reply

