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politics 6 and 8 year olds??

i was not happy to hear my six and eight year olds come home from public school stating specific things about presidential and vice presidential candidates. i was honestly shocked by what they learned in school from their teachers. My jaw dropped to hear the details of the candidates that they were exposed to. My very young children were in one day at their school taught to passionatley route for a specific canditate. i am hoping that my children will learn about how our government works at school not about what the media puts out there when they are this young. it is not appropriate at this point in their lives to come home stressed out about the election and what will happen if so and so is elected or not elected. i can understand debates related to this in high school but not in first and 3rd grade. Childhood these days is short enough and the pressure on little ones already comes too fast. i did an internship at the state capital years ago and i quickly learned that whether democrat or republican pretty much all politicians are not what i had thought or hoped for. i went in excited and came out with a sickening experience that left me with very little hope for either politcal party. (i chose to work for a democrat at the time) Politicians are politicians and they are far too complicated of a machine to go into with young children and worry them about at such a young age. They should only be learning the facts of how our government is structured and works at this point. My children were specifically pushed into a political direction in one short day at school rather then learning about how government works. When i was in grammer school all i learned about jimmy carter was that he liked peanuts when he was runnimg for president!!....and my grampy taught me that. Just enough information for an eight year old!!
Posted: October 14, 2008
By: WendyBellissimo

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Shoot, you are all talking about school age children. My oldest will be three in a few days and I have already talked to him about not letting anyone else touch his private parts and keeping his hands to himself as well. He was taking a bath and really interested in his own parts and as I was getting him ready for bed I simply felt compelled to bring this up. Did he understand everything I was saying - I hardly think so, but it is never to early to start, in small ways, to teach your kids about the dangers that they are sure to face. If you wait until you think they are old enough to understand - it's too late, by that time they will have likely already been exposed to incorrect and bad information.

My sister was just on a jury where there were drugs and a gun involved. There were two small children in the house the entire time. The jury asked some questions about the safety of the children and they were told that at no time were the children in any danger. Seriously? With a gun and drugs in the house? No danger at all???

If your children come home from school saying things that you don't agree with or don't believe, investigate the situation. So often children are repeating what they hear in the lunchroom and on the playground. Teachers cannot be expected to monitor every single word that is being said to and/or by your children. However, once something has been introduced, don't treat your children like babies. You know how to talk to them and how much of any certain subject they are going to understand. Talk to them and tell them what you believe. These are great opportunities for us as parents and if you only ever shut it down with a "you're too young to understand", they won't come and talk to you when they ARE old enough to understand.

What is the harm in an anti-drug bracelet? I know kids that age who are wearing Breast Cancer Awareness bracelets, or Testicular Cancer Awareness. Do they understand these any better than the anti-drug campaign?

ssadams | November 7, 2008 | reply


Did you talk to your childrens' teachers so you know for sure what was discussed? My children, 7 and 9, also spoke about the elections at school, but they were very possitive. We are all witnessing history so I think it's great to involve them and encourage them to vote and take action in the future. They did comment on a few negative ideas, but these were all thoughts shared by other students on recess and outside of the classroom. I was glad we had the discussion so I could let them know my thoughts on the subject. They are in school with other children & ideas are bound to be shared. Don't be scared, take action!!! Our children cannot live in a bubble. I hardly think participating in this exciting election will ruin their lives and corupt them forever!

And as far as "don't do drugs", are you crazy??? Why wouldn't you want to encourage your child to not do drugs? They may be exposed before you are ready. Don't you want them to have the sentence, "don't do drugs" etched in thier minds?

WAKE UP PEOPLE!!

Angie | November 4, 2008 | reply


I agree that elementary school is way to young to start teaching politics. My kids' school is actually voting for the president tommorrow, just like the "grown-up's". I was not happy with that. I don't however see the problem with the don't do drugs bracelets. Let's face it there are 6 & 8 year old kids that do drugs or live in houses with people who do drugs (there are even 3rd & 4th graders that are sexually active). It's never to soon to start teaching your kids about drugs.

theresabell | November 3, 2008 | reply


This "indoctrination" at such young ages is what upsets me the most. That and teachers using their, let's face it, very influential jobs as platforms for their own personal agenda/beliefs. The last thing I want my children exposed to is propaganda at school. And that's the real difference between what Wendy was saying about education on the structures of American government vs. making our children feel like they need to choose a side based on another individual's political sway. I would have been livid, to be quite frank. Even mock debates in high school are completely different than manipulating a young child's inquisitive nature and natural desire to fit in and to be held in good regard by their teachers... in high school you're at least old enough to understand what it means to be falliable, and also what it means to argue a point, even if you don't necessarily agree with it wholeheartedly. You might still be a long way away from true self discovery, but my goodness, I'd have some words for that teacher if my 5 year old came home and wanted to vote for one person or another in the lapse of a single day.

lyricsage | October 28, 2008 | reply


Our poor children need to be sheltered from some of the craziness...how sad to expose them to it prematurely. I am all for thorough education but there is a time, a way and AN AGE and believe that political education should wait until AT LEAST high school when the child has the benefit of deduction!

Our poor kids need to have fun - be filled with happiness and certainly NOT the stress of our current state! Okay, so here's to Positive Parenting - CHEERS!

CalmBabyRN | October 21, 2008 | reply


funny you should mention it, our 6 year old and 8 year old came home today with don't do drugs braclets and are being challenged to wear it all week. this is too young for sure.

WendyBellissimo | October 20, 2008 | reply


That is too bad that your children's teacher(s)/school abused their power of influence in such a manner. I do believe, however, that because this is such a historical election that our children should be aware of what is going on. It is not their responsibility to worry about who will win or necessarily what each person stands for, certainly ANY information should be given in an unbiased manner. Yet, one of the best ways to fully understand a subject is to be involved with it and because the elections are upcoming, it is a good opportunity for teachers to use real life topics and experiences to teach.

This is a great opportunity as a parent as well to really talk to your children about these topics as well. I would be glad that they were coming home talking about politics at this age as opposed to sex or anti-drug education; two other topics that are also getting introduced younger and younger.

ssadams | October 14, 2008 | reply


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