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Okay, don't think I'm crazy but in all honesty we are not very diffrent from other animal Moms...READ THIS article, I use it in my classes...
Baboon mothers do better with friends, study finds Social baboons found more successful at raising young
WASHINGTON, Nov. 13, 2003 - Among baboons, moms with lots of female friends are the most successful parents, according to a new study that supports the idea that social support is an essential part of being a baboon — or a human.
The study, appearing this week in the journal Science, found that baboon mothers who formed networks of female friends were about a third more successful at raising their young than were females who spent more time alone or isolated.
“We don’t know how sociability helps females, but we do know that social females do better at raising their young,” said Susan C. Alberts, a Duke University researcher and co-author of the study. “It suggests that social bonds are an important part of being primates.”
I honestly think that this is very true for humans, especially now a days, when couples are moving away from their own families. There is a great need to build your own small community and find you niche in it. I would highly encourage every new mom and dad to find groups, whether they be parenting groups or just social groups, that they can get out of the house with or with out the kids. It helps one to realize that they are not alone in the world. I know personally that it is hard for stay at home moms to get the socialization that we need. I also do think that it is important to not only have friends that may also be parents and have kids around the same age as yours, but it is important to have friends that you have other things in common with whether they be single, married with no kids or whatever. It is important to keep up with your own wants and needs and keep in touch with who you are as a person whether than just thinking of yourself as a mom all the time. And yes I personally also think that it makes you a better parent when you have a good social group and take time for yourself, it helps keep the stress and craziness down, lol.
alliedragon | November 10, 2008 | reply

