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My Best Parenting Advice Is...

I know you have one bit of great advice that you would give to parents. I was wondering what moms would come up with.

So please reply with "My Best Parenting Advice Is..."

Love Elena Ferrier

New York

Posted: July 23, 2008
By: Elena29x

52 Replies Post Your Reply
Be the change you want to see in your kid.

paige2e | April 15, 2010 | reply


My best parent advice is to rise healthy children and to introduce them with natural kids clothes. I love linen clothes and my kids do that. So they grow healthy and they think about the environment. What is more, no more allergies with linen clothes. Just love them!!!

LinenKids

Angelaaa | July 27, 2009 | reply


I grew up with the most difficult parents in the world , they never understood me. Any of these things that people are saying that make a good parent are none of which my parents were able to say they were, so I've learned from them to make myself a good parent. I believe the key to being a good parent is loving them by letting them go , especially a teenager , they want to get out , have fun. Let them do so , if you stay close to them , they won't ever have to lie to you about there where abouts because you have complete trust in them. They should be able to come to you and talk to you about anything in the world , and you should love them enough to really accept anything that he/she wants to do with there life.

lolaaafree | June 30, 2009 | reply


My best parenting advice is to encourage all your kids that they are on the "same team". We have a time of the week every week that we call "The Davis Family Club". We come together and do activities, have a fun snack, and talk about character building issues. Also, remind them that they will always be in each other's lives, and hopefully each other's best friends forever.

JenniferDavis | September 22, 2008 | reply


You know your kids better then ANYONE! Learn to trust your instincts even if it means telling your doctor to run another test or check again! I could of lost my little guy but I stood my groud! they ran some test & then we stayed a week in the hospital!

bubbagaloosch | September 22, 2008 | reply


My best parenting advice is to trust yourself. You know your kids the best. You know if something is really working or if somethins is off. You can listen to the "experts" but your are the expert of your own child.

momx4 | September 20, 2008 | reply


My best parenting advice is to be able to go with the flow...everytime you get your baby, toddler or child into a routine or on a schedule something may change and you have to have the ability to be flexible and change with it....a growing spurt, a change in seasons, a cold, a different sport season, a new tooth...it is all a part of the "growing pains" of life and we have to be able to adjust and continue to love and parent unconditionally!

SuzieCue | September 20, 2008 | reply


My best parenting advice...love them unconditionally, cherish every second with them (they grow up way too fast!), take care of yourself (because you're no good to them if you're not rested and healthy), always be willing to admit when you're wrong and always be consistent so they know what to expect from you at all times.

momof3ms | September 19, 2008 | reply


This is great advice.

aclaxton | January 7, 2012 | reply


My best advice is to be a parent, you can't always be their best friend. Children need and want bounderies, make them clear and be firm. consistancy is key. But also, let them know that your love is uncontional and you will never stop loving them no matter what. That you are there for them when they need to talk (about anything) or just need a hug. Let them know you are proud of them just for being who they are (not for what they accomplish). If children have a sense of love and secruity they will be more open with you and you will know what is going on in there lives.

Also, I highly recommend Dr. Kevin Leman's book "Have a New Kid by Friday". In the first 1/3 of the book he walks you throught the steps to take to "have a new kid by friday" and it's great advice if you are struggling with attitude, behavior &/or character issues with your child. But my favorite part of the book is the last 2/3 titled Ask Dr. Leman. It has great advice on almost anything you can think of like: potty training, allowence, dating, undereating, overeating, telephone courtsey, etc. It's an easy read and funny too. My house has become a much calmer place since implenenting his advice because we don't have to nag or yell to get results. My kids have even noticed the differences & commented on how much more fun we have as a family now.

theresabell | September 19, 2008 | reply


keep your word. if you make a promise to your child, keep it -- no matter how difficult that may be.

gourmetmomma | September 18, 2008 | reply


My best parenting advice is to be their best friend, confidant, and to show them unconditional love

jarnold | September 5, 2008 | reply


I totally agree with Teehazel that the best advice is whatever comes from within. Everyone's advice below is wonderful, but whats most important is the unique relationship that you have with your children.

Kenzie | September 4, 2008 | reply


my best parenting advice is to remember how much you love your children. every time you feel frustrated or stressed, just think about how much joy they bring you.

harmonyK | September 3, 2008 | reply


Any mom can give you every advise possible. It may have worked on their child but not for all. My cousin had her first baby and was totally confused about all the conflicting advise she was given. Lets just say she followed mine... I told her, listen to your child, get to know your child and just follow the basics. Burp, feed and change the diaper. Mother instincs will kick in better than advise that worked on someone elses child. Hope this helps :)

Teehazel | August 29, 2008 | reply


definitely - but I still stress... learn CPR! it's so valuable.

Ninayama | September 9, 2008 | reply


so true!

CRami53 | September 8, 2008 | reply


this is absolutely true.

HeatherN | September 2, 2008 | reply


love every moment of it... you wont believe how fast they grow up!

ItsTuckerTime | August 29, 2008 | reply


My best parenting advice is enjoy your children! The little things that can irritate you on a daily basis are so insignificant. Don't sweat the messy house, the spilled juice, or the bedtime battles, just enjoy those amazing little people and have fun.

CharityNebbe | August 28, 2008 | reply


I love everyone's advice! keep it coming!

Elena29x | August 22, 2008 | reply


My best parenting advice is to be a great role model for your child. They learn by watching you and doing the things you do.

DarcyM | August 21, 2008 | reply


My best parenting advice is to arrange weekly activities to do with your whole family, because in such a busy world, it's easy to lose sight of what's really important.

CamyMom | August 21, 2008 | reply


My best parenting advice is to put your childrens' needs before your own, yet never lose yourself in the process.

LambLady | August 20, 2008 | reply


best parenting advice? remind your kids on a regular basis you believe in them and love them and that they can do anything they put their mind to.

Jeff | August 19, 2008 | reply


my best parenting advice is to spend as much time with your children as possible, it doesnt matter what you're doing just be with them

Kaylie | August 19, 2008 | reply


my best parenting advice is to be a friend and a guide for your child.

rosiejosie | August 15, 2008 | reply


my best parenting advice is exactly the same as rnmomof3's.... be consistent with your little ones! They will never learn if they're always being told different things. This also applies within parents and within relatives - make sure other people that care for your child understand the way you raise your child.

WONGchica | August 14, 2008 | reply


unconditional love - i know you get upset or times get difficult, but never forget that before all, your child is a little piece of you and you must love them no matter what.

AlishaK | August 13, 2008 | reply


My best advice: Every night after the children are asleep, check on them. Look at the beauty and peace in their faces and reflect on the day. Think about their qualities that you love. Forgive them for anything that went badly that day (so you don't hold it against them tomorrow). Pray for them and thank God for them.

theLaura | August 12, 2008 | reply


My best parenting advice is consistency. Provide boundriesd rules, and stick to them. there is lots of fun to be had, and when your kids know where the line is, and your expectations are, you will have more fun than yelling!

rnmomof3 | August 11, 2008 | reply


my best parenting advice is to keep an open line of communication with your child. if they're afraid to talk to you, you wont be able to follow what's going on in their life

HeatherN | August 8, 2008 | reply


i totally agree.

HelsNests | August 12, 2008 | reply


Balance

NaturesBabyOrganics | August 5, 2008 | reply


my best parenting advice is to be HONEST with your child at all times. Don't lie and say "mom and dad" never did that, because they'll be more willing to listen to your advice if they realize that you're imperfect as well. kids will rebel and resent their parents if they think you're telling them not to do something,but have never tried it yourself.

Mendezita | August 4, 2008 | reply


My best parenting advice is to treat your child like your friend, while still maintaining their respect and admiration as a role model. Find a comfortable medium between being able to hang out with them as an equal and as a parent - never compromising your role as a positive example.

HelsNests | August 1, 2008 | reply


My Best Parenting Advice is to treat your child like an adult... explain reasons to them, and never say something is the way it is because "you're the mom" or "you're the dad"

michael | July 24, 2008 | reply


My Best Parenting Advice Is...

Be your kid's best friend and have fun with them often... without comprimising your role as parent/guardian.

bdilley | July 24, 2008 | reply


My Best Parenting Advice is...

Every child is diffferent so trust your instincts when it comes to your child. What works for one child probably won't work for another.

lauramclaughlin | July 24, 2008 | reply


My best parenting advice is in support of an earlier post...

LEARN CPR AND ALWAYS KNOW IT! Make sure ANYONE watching your kids does the same. It only takes a minute to change a life.

I'm a nurse - trust me.

Ninayama | July 23, 2008 | reply


My best parenting advice is to never argue with your husband around the kids. Not very exciting but this should be avoided (and when he deserves it do it in private)

(Our arguments are the small and petty type and most of the time we are very much in love...so don't worry)

ReneeAndKyle | July 23, 2008 | reply


My Best Parenting Advice is to spend as much time as possible with your kids and enjoy every moment. My Ellie is already a big kid and I feel like I missed all of those years. it's true that they blow by and you don't know what happened...

MellyMel | July 23, 2008 | reply


My best parenting advice is to ditch the television (or be the gatekeeper for whenever they want to watch). You will be surprised at how they will quickly occupy themselves with art and play and reading (if old enough.)

ChanChan | July 23, 2008 | reply


I love this advice. My daughter is very creative, and if I had just stuck her in front of a tv to fill time when I was busy, I would have missed out on being able to see what's in her heart and mind through her art.

adilen | August 30, 2008 | reply


My best parenting advice is to treat your kids with respect. Don't every talk down to them. Be conscious of this...sarcasm goes right over their head and they take it at face value.

KathyGB | July 23, 2008 | reply


my best parenting advice is to listen to your instincts. They are there for a reason.

LandisMom | July 23, 2008 | reply


My best parenting advice is to always follow through on what you tell your kids you are going to do. If they know your word is golden then when you have to tell them "maybe later" or "finish eating and you can have desert" they are more likely to go with it. Flaking out on your kids creates instabillity and they need stability.

DaniD | July 23, 2008 | reply


couldnt have said it better

CRami53 | August 28, 2008 | reply


my best parenting advice is to make sure you have some giggle-time with your kids each day and each night before bed. Laughter is so important to kids and when it comes from you it is the best bonding in my opinion.

MamaKels | July 23, 2008 | reply


My best parenting advice is to learn CPR and take a refresher course EVERY YEAR! If you every need this you will wish to God you had the ability.

jamieW | July 23, 2008 | reply


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