I hear you girlfriend!!! The same thing started happening with my husband. I spoke with my celebrity hair stylist and he had one word for me: Nioxin. Nioxin doesn't bring hair back, but it preserves what you have. They have a whole line of hair products (gel, shampoo, conditioner, etc.). BUT the real amazing product that I discovered is called "Toppik." This product is magical. . .you sprinkle it on "the area" and it instantly builds your hair with natural keratin protein fibers. There are different colors to match every man. . .it really works. I have a co-worker whose hair looks so full and thick whenever he uses it on camera - you would never guess that he's balding. I only notice it when he doesnt use it. There you go!