"I don't get it!"  "It's too hard."  "Homework is boring."  Sound familiar?  For many parents these phrases and countless others can be heard from their frustrated child at the homework table.  However, the moment mom or dad steps in with help, many students fall apart over any minor miscommunication and resent being told what to do.  So how can the family move forward together with less stress and better grades?  Do the whole family a favor and invest in hiring a tutor.       

First, decide how exactly your child could benefit from a tutor.  There are several reasons why a tutor can be beneficial.  Perhaps your son is having difficulties in his math class and feels rushed, intimidated or embarrassed to ask questions.  When in a one-on-one environment with an experienced tutor the student can freely express any confusion and clarify all questions.  The tutor will also be able to immediately recognize and address the disconnects that occurred in the classroom.  Another benefit is  that a tutor will have a different teaching style than the student's primary educator.  New tactics and approaches may be all the student needs to understand difficult material.  A tutor can also be a wonderful mentor.  Having an educated, caring, and supportive individual who's sole purpose is to encourage your child to succeed in school can be an invaluable asset.  

There are many wonderful tutors out there - but, how do you find the right one for your family?  As with any partnership, communication is key.  Both the parent and child should feel comfortable discussing their concerns about any and everything involving the classroom.  Think about asking your child how they best learn and what they have liked about past teachers prior to hiring a tutor. Giving the student a sense of control in choosing their tutor helps pave the way for a flourishing tutor and student relationship.  One great option to consider is hiring a successful college student.  A college student's focused yet youthful approach can quickly connect with your child and bring out their true potential.  

If you are not sure where to turn in order to find this fantastic new tutor for you child, using a tutoring service may be helpful.  Find a service that does extensive background and reference checks, performs an in-depth interview and gives you the opportunity to meet and ask your potential tutor personal questions of your own.  A service can be great through their offering of ongoing support, guidance and resources for your family.  Such services can also provide customized learning plans for your child, setting your mind at ease that your child is on a clear path for success.