What's the best present to give big brother or sister?

Nothing is more traumatic for a toddler than to be replaced by a new baby.  This little stranger gets all of the attention and tons of presents.  Be considerate of this sensitive older sibling.When you select a present for his baby brother or sister.  The most thoughtful thing you can do is bring or send him a present too.  That being said -- what do you get the older sibling? 

Here are 4 great ideas:

l. The easiest gift to bring is a  book.  This gives immediate gratification.  If you are visiting, you can always spend a bit of time and read the book to the older child.  We recommend big brother books like "Meet Jack Truck" or any of the "Olivia" books for the little girls.  The "LLama, Mamma" series is great for kids of both sexes 2-5.  If the sibling is over 5, "Alexander and the No Good Bad Day" is always a pleaser.

2. It's hard to guess which toys kids have or like once they are over 2 years of age.  You can never go wrong, however, with a soft stuffed animal for kids of both sexes.  This is the time that the older sibling needs a little tender love and a soft plush bunny or teddy bear will do the trick.

3. Another popular idea is a character beach towel.  No one can have too many towels.  Finding a towel with a sports or animal theme is always a welcome addition.

4. If the older child is in pre-school or camp, a nap mat or back pack makes a useful gift that will show him that it's more fun to be older.
Unless you know that the child likes clothes, we find that most clothing is unappreciated by a child.  Please avoid getting a big brother or sister shirt -- this is the last thing the older child wants to be reminded of; he knows his role has changed and doesn't need it to be rubbed in with a trite logo shirt.